hello, are you my friend?

Does anyone know what friends are for? Before this I thought friends are supposed to be there for you when you're happy or sad and stick with you to the end. Friends are supposed to make you feel better, not hurt your feelings by looking down on you and making you feel like crap. Friends are not supposed to say insulting things to you (knowingly or not) and they're definitely not supposed to be the ones who make a perfectly uncomplicated day for you turn terrible. So next time when you have a friend, treat them like one or don't bother being one. I for one definitely don't need insincere 'friends' who has no idea about the value of friendship. If you don't wanna be my friend, please just stop the act. Stop pretending. Stop saying inappropriate things because true friends would never do that.


p/s: I guess it takes something bad to happen to you for you to differentiate who really is your friend and who is faking it, who really cares for you and who couldn't even care less. having said that, it's such a sad way of knowing.

Reminder for the soul

“Aku hairan dengan orang yang mengetahui kematian, tapi mengapa ia masih tertawa;

Aku hairan dengan orang yang tahu bahawa dunia adalah sementara, tapi mengapa ia sangat mencintainya;

Aku hairan dengan orang yang mengetahui semua urusan telah ditakdirkan, tapi mengapa ia takut kehilangan;

Aku hairan dengan orang yang mengetahui bahwa hisab adalah suatu kepastian, tapi mengapa ia tetap mengum
pulkan harta dan menghitung-hitungnya;

Aku hairan dengan orang yang mengetahui panasnya api neraka, tapi mengapa ia tetap berbuat dosa;

Aku hairan dengan orang yang mengaku mengenal Allah, tapi mengapa ia meminta tolong kepada selain-Nya;

Aku hairan kepada orang yang mengaku mengetahui kenikmatan syurga, tapi mengapa ia merasa hidup tenang di dunia;

Dan aku hairan kepada orang yang mengetahui syaitan adalah musuhnya, tapi mengapa ia mentaatinya.”

Uthman bin Affan Radhiyallahu anhu
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